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Stop comparing yourself to others
No second monitor? No problem
Happy November! đđź Itâs about to be a busy month, so Iâm relaxing before diving in. It seems counterintuitive, but we do some of our best work when we prioritize resting instead of working nonstop. This idea is from Naval Ravikant, who says âthe right way to work is like a lion, instead of grazing like a cow.â If you can, schedule time to recharge between projects so you can then pounce at full force. đŚ
No Second Monitor? No Problem!
What does your ideal office setup look like? đ
Maybe it includes a fancy ergonomic chair or a desk crafted from the finest birch timber. Or maybe a walking pad so you can tread ten miles in a single workday like this incredible woman did.
Iâm willing to bet a second monitor would also make the cut in your dream office setup. đ
A second monitor can be a game changer for us Excel users. It means youâŚ
No longer need to switch screens every two seconds, saving you time.
Can edit one part of your workbook while viewing another (fab for complex data!).
Boost productivity by an average of 42%, according to a study by Jon Peddie Research.
âLovely, but I donât have multiple monitors!â you might be thinking. Turns out you donât need âem!
Time to learn how to set up a dual monitor. This Excel tip shattered the internet (with 1.5M + views đ¤Ż) and shows you how to split and position your workbook on one screen.
Hereâs how!
Step 1ď¸âŁ: Duplicate your screen by pressing Alt + W + N.
Step 2ď¸âŁ: Arrange your screen by pressing Alt + W + A + O (the letter).
Step 3ď¸âŁ: Now your worksheet is split on the same screen. And when you update one, the other automatically updates too!
This tip is a lifesaver for my data or financial analysts, who often deal with huge workbooks. They can reference one part of their data (for example, number of items sold) while typing into another (such as the price or purchase date).
Although this tip might not get you the perfect monitor, itâs a step in the right direction. đ
Do you have an Excel tip or question youâd like to share? Drop me a line! Iâd love to hear from you.
When You Compare Yourself to Someone
Youâre scrolling through Instagram when you see someone post that theyâre moving to a dreamy European city (hint: it has croissants đĽ).
Is your gut reaction to be inspired by their achievement? Or does your stomach drop as you think, âWhy canât I be as talented as they are?â
Itâs normal to worry about how we weigh up to othersâcomparison is a natural behavior that once helped us live in cohesive groups and learn from one another.
But that instinct toward self-comparison isnât as useful today. It doesnât help that social media exacerbates this urge with a massive highlight reel in the palm of our hand.
When I started using social media to grow Miss Excel, it was easy to get sucked into this low-vibrational energy. Iâd see people crushing it while my project was in its infancy.
But during this time, I was also diving deep and doing the inner work.
Through meditation, journaling, and shadow work, I began embracing myself. This resulted in a massive confidence shift, and my mindset flipped:
âWhy canât it be me?â âĄď¸ âItâs inspiring to watch what I could become.â
I had leaped from Comparison Land and arrived at Inspiration World. Here, peopleâs achievements didnât bum me out. Instead, they lit me on fire. đĽ
The bridge was self-esteem. By establishing that youâre capable and deserving of success, youâll see others less as competition and more as a signal of whatâs possible.
One way I practice this is by determining how I relate to the other person.
đŠâđŤ Do they also love teaching others?
𤳠Have they also been posting on social media for a few years?
⨠Are they also a big fan of all things manifestation and visualization?
By finding common ground, youâll notice there isnât a huge difference between you and them. And if they did it, why canât you?
While comparison is a human impulse we canât ever fully turn off, we can mitigate its intensity by embracing our unique gifts. When we do, weâll enter a headspace brimming with optimism instead of self-doubt.
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Are you about to quit your job? đ Then you might wanna save this Outlook tip.
If youâre a remote worker, check out Portugalâs new digital nomad visa!
How do you live a ârich life?â Financial educator Ramit Sethi explains in this podcast.
Instagram is no longer splitting 60-second stories into 15-second segments (great news for all content creators). đ˝
Loved this bite-sized (yet powerful) career advice for young people by George Mack.
According to The Nudge, one of the best ways to win someone over is to find something you like about that person.
It could be their earrings, nose, or accent. Identifying something you like about the person will subconsciously make them feel respected and comfortable.
You donât even have to bring up your complimentâjust the act of scanning is powerful enough!
Stay Excelent,
Kat